I’ve always been drawn to stories, quotes, videos, etc. that focus on self-love, inner peace, growth and acceptance. I find that type of content to be inspiring and uplifting, and that’s the type of attitude I want to exude and put out into the world.
This isn’t always easy — in fact, it rarely is. Life gets hard. People can be awful. Circumstances can knock us down. Keeping up the practice of being mindfully happy, choosing joy and finding the silver linings can get exhausting.
When things get exhausting, I turn to content that will lift me up. Here is what I have found immensely helpful and inspiring lately:
Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert, as well as her Big Magic podcast. This is all about overcoming fear and living a creative life – whatever that means for you.
The Gifts of Imperfection, as well as Daring Greatly by Brene Brown. This amazing woman has spent years and years researching shame and vulnerability.
Dear Sugar Raido podcast with Cheryl Strayed and Steve Almond. They’re awesome writers who give amazing advice.
What resources do you use that put a smile on your face? Comment below so I can share with you in the awesomeness!
September has been such a busy month, and it’s really all gearing up towards a more crazy October – but in a great way.
This weekend Renee and I signed a lease on a new apartment, and we move in three weeks (two weeks before the wedding). We’re moving from a 500 sq. foot, one bedroom apartment, to an 800 sq. foot loft apartment with more storage space, cabinets and a cool layout. My favorite part so far: a washer and dryer!!! The freedom to do laundry whenever I want and not have to leave my apartment is going to be excellent. We want to take this first year of our marriage and save for our future, so hopefully in a year we can buy a house.
Money has been on the forefront of my mind recently, but not in the same panicked way it always has been before. Something has started to shift in my mindset, from one of “not enough money ever,” to being appreciative of everything that I have been blessed with. For acknowledging how much I do have, and for being thankful of having enough. Sometimes it doesn’t feel like “enough,” but Renee and I are able to live somewhere safe and comfortable. We have enough food to eat and don’t go hungry. We can help out with our family. We’re able to make our car payments. Those are our basics needs, and those needs are met. The things that we consider our “basic needs” are actually luxuries to many people, so I’ve found that if I take time to acknowledge and be grateful for that, the stress is less.
In dealing with money, we also have a wedding that we’re paying for! Weddings are not typically cheap, but they absolutely can be – if you shift your perspective. What’s important to you and your beloved? Is the venue worth shelling out thousands of dollars for? The food? The decorations? The photographers? The dress? For us and our tight budget, we really had to think: what’s the most important thing for us on that day? The answer was simply, “to be surrounded with love by our friends and family as we celebrate our love for one another.” That’s what we wanted – love and people. Do I remember all the table settings of previous weddings that I’ve been to? All the decorations? The types of flowers? The dress, even? Honestly, no. In the end, what sticks out to me is how happy the couple looked on that day and how much fun we all had. That’s it. So when we started planning the wedding, we kept that in mind and let everything else fall into place without much stress or worry. Is it going to be the most gorgeous, well-planned and meticulously decorated wedding ever? No. But I bet there will be enough love and happiness surrounding us that day that we’ll never forget it.
How have you been dealing with the stressors in your life? How have you changed your thought process to encompass the “enough” mentality?
Plexus (which is an amazing natural health and wellness company) products are natural, mineral and plant-based products. If you’ve watched My Why video, you’ll know that even I was a skeptic of these products at first (for TWO YEARS!). I’m all about being natural, but when it comes to RESULTS, I was a huge skeptic that natural products would even come close to doing what prescribed medications do. I mean… they’re plants.
But then I had a thought the other morning. If you eat the wrong plants or berries, they can kill you. ACTUALLY KILL YOU. A tiny berry! (Anyone read “Into The Wild?) If you touch the wrong plant, it can spread horrible, itchy hives all over your body like wildfire. (Ever get poison ivy or poison oak as a kid?) Just by TOUCHING the plant! Coffee, which comes from a berry, has the power to give us energy and keep us up all night if we drink it too late.
We know all of this to be true, so why do we have such a hard time believing that the opposite can be true, too? Why do we have a hard time believing that plants could actually bring us back to life? Or at least help get our body on the right track again! For example: beet root is a natural detoxifier and antioxidant that aids in maintaining healthy blood pressure and helps prevent heart disease (found in Plexus Slim). Grape skin extract is a powerful antioxidant that also aids in heart health and lowers blood sugar (also found in the Slim). Ahiflower oil is used in the Plexus MegaX softgel, which supplies your body with amazing Omegas. Omegas are super important for both brain and cardiovascular health, and can also aid in stress reduction and relaxation.
There are so many more examples that I could recite after I started doing some research, but my point is this – for all the skeptics out there (I was one for a loooong time!), you should definitely give plants a shot. Thankfully, Plexus has done the research and science and has formulated life-changing products that can help with an entire slew of health issues. Plexus does not claim to “cure” anything, but I can tell you from my personal experience, and from those who have given Plexus a shot, these products have amazing BENEFITS. Medications have side-effects (you just need to listen to a pharmaceutical commercial, and most likely more than half of it is the list of the harmful things that could possibly happen), and I like to say that Plexus has benefits. You want to lose weight? So many of the products have that benefit – but it first stems from correcting the root problem of unbalanced blood sugar levels, cholesterol levels and poor gut health. The products are working to naturally balance your body, and once your body is consistently balanced, the benefits include more energy and possible weight loss. I’ve experienced both of these benefits and a lot more.
It’s OK if you think that maybe Plexus is a bunch of natural hooey, but then again – what if this changes everything for you? And with a 60-day money back guarantee, what’s there to lose? Message me for more info!
We kicked off the month by having a bridal shower here in Texas with some close friends. We walked into our friend’s house and were welcomed by a “Here Come the Brides” banner, balloons, and delicious homemade food. My favorite: the cupcakes with natural edible lavender in the cake and in the frosting. We were super happy to be able to spend the day with great friends from all over, and for Mekia and Paige who took time out of their busy schedules to make this day extra special.
Afterwards, we came back to our apartment and Renee cooked a seriously delicious Korean meal.
The following weekend we headed up to Michigan for some wedding festivities! On Friday, a handful of close friends got together and we hit some local breweries around Kalamazoo for my bachelorette party. We ate a seriously delicious dinner at Gonzo’s Biggdogg Brewing Company, where my friend is head chef and GM, and then we headed back to a friend’s house to have a Pure Romance Party hosted by another amazing and passionate friend. My ridiculously talented sister-in-law surprised us all by making what she calls “Paint a Pussy” cookies! It was pure perfection.
The next day was our bridal shower/my birthday! This was a chance for us to celebrate our wedding with our loves in Michigan who won’t be able to attend the wedding in Texas. I felt so loved and blessed that so many people came, and it made my birthday that much sweeter. The theme was “Adventure Awaits,” and so much thought, help, time and beauty went into making this day so so special. I was overwhelmed and humbled at the thoughtfulness of it all, and my thank you notes just don’t do my feelings justice.
And to top it all off, my mother decided that she loves the Plexus products she’s taking so much that she decided to become an ambassador! I’m so happy that she’s feeling better and loves the natural products. When you’re feeling great and you find something that works, you want to share it with everyone! Welcome to the team, Mom!!!
“How does society teach us to make extra money?
• A nurse takes extra shifts.
• A police officer works through the night.
• A teacher tutors after teaching all day.
• A hairdresser books more clients.
• A graphic designer takes on freelance clients.
• A single mom works a second job.
• A father works overtime.
All of these ways involve spending more time AWAY from your family and friends. Isn’t the goal to spend more time WITH the ones you love?”
I was able to quit my third job because of the awesome opportunities with Plexus. Now I get to sleep in every weekend morning, wake up with my fiancé and FaceTime with my family in Michigan. ❤️